Musings on being human

and

finding flow

The Gift of Giving-Up flow human spirit resillience stress well-being Oct 09, 2022

Surrender. I always hated that word. It grated in my ears and reverberated in my bones as hopelessness. It sounded like giving-up, giving-in, and giving-over my power; both hands in the air waving...

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Time's Forked Tongue expectations productivity stress time Sep 19, 2022

It’s easy to get caught in the hamster wheel of life; running faster and faster just to stay standing.

Everyone falls prey at some point. Here’s a poem about my experience:

 

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The True Value and Purpose of a Family Huddle family parenting relationships systems May 08, 2022

"Mom, Iris is about to throw up," said my daughter Skye from the living room. I was in the kitchen, standing in front of the coffee maker holding my favorite Ulster Weavers fox printed mug. "Okay,...

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10 Playful and Inexpensive Date Night Ideas fun + leisure holidays intimacy love valentine's Feb 01, 2022

Since when did life, relationships, and fun have to be so serious? Our expectations can make date night feel like work. It's time to take a cue from the kids and remember how to play.

 

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Productivity, Rodeo-Style efficiency expectations flow goals productivity Jan 23, 2022

Four opened containers of capers. Two jars of sauerkraut, each with 1/2 a serving left swirling around the bottom of the clear brine. Three opened bags of shredded cheese, by some small miracle...

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Revelations From My Bedroom Sep 08, 2021

Today, I'm going to let you in on a guilty pleasure that happens in my bedroom.

Most Sundays, at 8:50am, my phone starts playing the song Beethoven's 5 Secrets, this is my cue to nudge my husband...

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One Way to Find More Time flow inner peace productivity stress May 21, 2021

My daughter, Skye, stuck out her foot and plopped it on my lap. She was laying on her white daybed, covered by a pink fleece blanket with only her watermelon colored hair poking out of the top and...

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Five Days Locked in My Winter Palace family human spirit inner peace stress time Mar 21, 2021

I cracked my eyes open, just a bit. My bedroom was still dark with all the curtains closed, but I could see a pencil thin line of bright white light above me, peeking from under the skylight's...

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A (Mostly) Reusable Easter easter fun + leisure holidays Mar 14, 2021

Easter baskets were not a thing at my house when I was a kid. Easter wasn’t much of a thing. We were Seventh Day Adventists and Easter was pretty much a non-holiday. We would dye hard boiled...

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Saving Your Holiday Traditions christmas family fun + leisure holidays parenting Dec 05, 2020

Holidays are sweet benchmarks for acknowledging the passing of time and seasons; they can be excuses to let loose and breakaway from the normal pace of life, or a chance to stop and reconnect with...

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